{"id":1802,"date":"2025-10-08T22:23:21","date_gmt":"2025-10-08T22:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.aiadallas.org\/columns\/?p=1802"},"modified":"2025-10-08T22:30:06","modified_gmt":"2025-10-08T22:30:06","slug":"leave-the-screen-find-a-space","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aiadallas.org\/columns\/leave-the-screen-find-a-space\/","title":{"rendered":"Leave the Screen. Find a Space."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Here is a number that gives me pause: 305 million. <\/strong>That\u2019s the staggering global user base of OnlyFans, a digital behemoth whose recent $7.2 billion in gross revenue suggests that we are actively exchanging genuine human connection for a low-friction, digital substitute.<sup data-fn=\"e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa-link\" href=\"#e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa\">1<\/a><\/sup> It\u2019s a trend one could call \u201cloneliness industrial complex.\u201d These platforms don\u2019t truly connect us; instead, they profit from our isolation by transforming social lives into low-risk transactions that leave us feeling superficially connected, but fundamentally alone. A thoughtful response to this pervasive phenomenon may lie in the oldest solution of all: revitalizing our \u201cthird spaces.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Great Rewiring<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The digital shift isn\u2019t a fleeting trend; it\u2019s an integrated part of modern life. Our attention is constantly pulled from the nuanced realities of the physical world toward platforms that prioritize curated self-presentations, subtly shifting our social lives toward convenient, transactional interactions. For many, this has led to a kind of emotional numbness. I\u2019ve often been struck by the jarring experience of scrolling through Instagram stories, where a heart-wrenching news story about a tragedy is followed by a friend\u2019s lavish vacation photos. This rapid and disorienting shift from profound sadness to aspirational envy can desensitize us to the fullness of human experience. As Jonathan Haidt argues in his book <em>The Anxious Generation<\/em>, the \u201cgreat rewiring of childhood\u201d has led to an epidemic of mental illness by replacing a \u201cplay-based childhood\u201d with a \u201cphone-based childhood.\u201d<sup data-fn=\"6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6-link\" href=\"#6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6\">2<\/a><\/sup> This societal shift has even led the World Health Organization to recognize loneliness as a \u201cglobal health threat.\u201d<sup data-fn=\"07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c-link\" href=\"#07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c\">3<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While online platforms are often lauded for creating global communities, the very convenience they offer can come at the cost of the tangible skills and deep relationships required for a healthy society. If the pendulum has swung too far, perhaps it\u2019s time to intentionally guide it back toward the physical world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Journey of the \u201cThird Space\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Our relationship with the public gathering spaces that sociologist Ray Oldenburg termed \u201cthird spaces\u201d\u2014places outside of work and home\u2014is a narrative of generational shifts, from institutions to individuals. For the Baby Boomers, the third space was often a pillar of institutional life, like a local church or community center. This type of physical anchor gave way to the commercial spaces embraced by Gen X, who found community in the consumer culture of malls and arcades. As Millennials began to navigate a new digital world, their sense of community blurred between the physical and the virtual. But it is with Gen Z that a clear counternarrative is emerging; that generation\u2019s average screen time of over 7 hours a day<sup data-fn=\"b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47-link\" href=\"#b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47\">4<\/a><\/sup> is leading to a crucial, if nascent, countermovement. Surveys show a clear desire to unplug: 54% of American teenagers feel that they spend too much time on their phones,<sup data-fn=\"27569479-f5d3-44a7-864c-633bc2209f5e\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"27569479-f5d3-44a7-864c-633bc2209f5e-link\" href=\"#27569479-f5d3-44a7-864c-633bc2209f5e\">5<\/a><\/sup> and 46% of Gen Z have already taken steps to limit their screen time.<sup data-fn=\"80692f48-4769-49c9-836a-4bc43175bab0\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"80692f48-4769-49c9-836a-4bc43175bab0-link\" href=\"#80692f48-4769-49c9-836a-4bc43175bab0\">6<\/a><\/sup> This intentional focus on offline experiences is manifesting in movements like the rising popularity of \u201cdumb phones,\u201d with searches for the term steadily increasing since 2020.<sup data-fn=\"4db1e639-13ca-4576-9ea0-97684b05d3df\" class=\"fn\"><a id=\"4db1e639-13ca-4576-9ea0-97684b05d3df-link\" href=\"#4db1e639-13ca-4576-9ea0-97684b05d3df\">7<\/a><\/sup> These devices, which lack the constant distraction of social media apps, are being embraced as a way to \u201creclaim\u201d time and focus, while brands are increasingly investing in workshops, live events, and pop-up experiences to connect with this generation in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:15px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Quiet Revolution<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This powerful impulse toward connection is manifesting in new ways. In Dallas, for example, groups like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oakcliffruncrew.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Oak Cliff Run Club<\/a> are explicitly designed to make meeting people \u201ceasy, natural, and fun\u201d through a shared passion for fitness. Their weekly runs begin at 1406 N. Zang Boulevard and wind through Oak Cliff\u2019s sidewalks and parks, turning the neighborhood itself into a social landscape. Likewise, <a href=\"https:\/\/thewilddetectives.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Wild Detectives<\/a>, a bookstore in the Bishop Arts District, has built a community around a love of literature with its regular book clubs. Its shaded front porch and cozy interior blur the line between domestic and civic space, inviting lingering conversation. Similarly, the 35-seat <a href=\"https:\/\/www.spacydtx.com\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spacy<\/a> microcinema offers a highly intimate and curated experience, acting as a space in which artists and audiences can connect through niche, international, and avant-garde film. Located inside Tyler Station in Oak Cliff, its folding chairs and DIY ethos foster a cinematic experience rooted in intimacy and shared curiosity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These grassroots efforts are a clear glimpse into a new direction, a collective shift where people are actively building community in the physical world. Realizing these vibrant spaces will require creative investment and thoughtful policy, but the growing momentum behind them shows that communities are already leading the way. The success of these organic movements shows that the will for in-person connection is already there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The path forward, then, is not a retreat to an earlier, analog world but a conscious act of creation. It begins with a simple choice: a choice that can be made by each one of us. It is the choice to put down the phone and find a place to connect with others, to choose the tangible over the transactional. It\u2019s about recognizing the agency we have, at both the individual and the community level, to combat the digital isolation that has become so commonplace. If we are shaping the built environment, we need to recognize our role as citizen architects, able to empower community in ways both subtle and bold. The true \u201creboot\u201d of our society will come not from a new app or a new tech device but from the simple, deliberate act of finding and inhabiting shared space\u2014one step, one conversation, and one spontaneous pickleball game at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">References<\/h4>\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-footnotes\"><li id=\"e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa\">\u00a0Hypebeast. (2025, August 24). <em>OnlyFans Revenue Soared to $7.2 Billion USD in 2024<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/hypebeast.com\/2025\/8\/onlyfans-2024-revenue-7-2-billion-usd-nine-percent-increase-report\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/hypebeast.com\/2025\/8\/onlyfans-2024-revenue-7-2-billion-usd-nine-percent-increase-report<\/a> <a href=\"#e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 1\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6\">Haidt, J. (2024). <em>The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness<\/em>. Penguin Press. <a href=\"#6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 2\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c\">World Health Organization. (2023, November 15). <em>WHO launches commission to foster social connection<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/detail\/15-11-2023-who-launches-commission-to-foster-social-connection\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/detail\/15-11-2023-who-launches-commission-to-foster-social-connection<\/a> <a href=\"#07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 3\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47\">iQmetrix. (2024, January 30). <em>Dumb Phones: A Surprising Tech Trend for 2024<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024<\/a> <a href=\"#b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 4\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"27569479-f5d3-44a7-864c-633bc2209f5e\">Time. (2018, August 22). <em>More Than Half of Teens Think They Spend Too Much Time on Their Phones<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/5373159\/teens-smartphones-anxiety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/time.com\/5373159\/teens-smartphones-anxiety\/<\/a> <a href=\"#27569479-f5d3-44a7-864c-633bc2209f5e-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 5\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"80692f48-4769-49c9-836a-4bc43175bab0\">ExpressVPN. (2025, September 9). <em>Survey: 46% of Gen Z take measures to limit screen time<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.expressvpn.com\/blog\/digital-minimalism-generational-insights\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.expressvpn.com\/blog\/digital-minimalism-generational-insights\/<\/a> <a href=\"#80692f48-4769-49c9-836a-4bc43175bab0-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 6\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><li id=\"4db1e639-13ca-4576-9ea0-97684b05d3df\">iQmetrix. (2024, January 30). <em>Dumb Phones: A Surprising Tech Trend for 2024<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024<\/a> <a href=\"#4db1e639-13ca-4576-9ea0-97684b05d3df-link\" aria-label=\"Jump to footnote reference 7\">\u21a9\ufe0e<\/a><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here is a number that gives me pause: 305 million. That\u2019s the staggering global user base of OnlyFans, a digital behemoth whose recent $7.2 billion in gross revenue suggests that we are actively exchanging genuine human connection for a low-friction, digital substitute.1 It\u2019s a trend one could call \u201cloneliness industrial complex.\u201d These platforms don\u2019t truly [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1804,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"[{\"content\":\"\u00a0Hypebeast. (2025, August 24). <em>OnlyFans Revenue Soared to $7.2 Billion USD in 2024<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\\\"https:\/\/hypebeast.com\/2025\/8\/onlyfans-2024-revenue-7-2-billion-usd-nine-percent-increase-report\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\" rel=\\\"noreferrer noopener\\\">https:\/\/hypebeast.com\/2025\/8\/onlyfans-2024-revenue-7-2-billion-usd-nine-percent-increase-report<\/a>\",\"id\":\"e7682e22-9e24-48af-a4b5-9767edb989aa\"},{\"content\":\"Haidt, J. (2024). <em>The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness<\/em>. Penguin Press.\",\"id\":\"6973a5de-6575-419d-907d-0c7f781fd1a6\"},{\"content\":\"World Health Organization. (2023, November 15). <em>WHO launches commission to foster social connection<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/detail\/15-11-2023-who-launches-commission-to-foster-social-connection\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\" rel=\\\"noreferrer noopener\\\">https:\/\/www.who.int\/news-room\/detail\/15-11-2023-who-launches-commission-to-foster-social-connection<\/a>\",\"id\":\"07cd15ac-39f9-40eb-a40e-54b1213a3a9c\"},{\"content\":\"iQmetrix. (2024, January 30). <em>Dumb Phones: A Surprising Tech Trend for 2024<\/em>. Retrieved from <a href=\\\"https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024\\\" target=\\\"_blank\\\" rel=\\\"noreferrer noopener\\\">https:\/\/www.iqmetrix.com\/blog\/dumb-phones-a-surprising-tech-trend-for-2024<\/a>\",\"id\":\"b84652e0-5d42-45d9-9929-1fe07441cc47\"},{\"content\":\"Time. (2018, August 22). <em>More Than Half of Teens Think They Spend Too Much Time on Their Phones<\/em>. 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